The start of a new year is a good time to finally commit the time and energy to write a book. But first, ask yourself one important question to find out if you really have what it takes to be a writer.

When people ask what I do and I say I’m a book editor, they tell me they’d love to write a book some day, once the kids are grown up, when they have more time, or if only they were good enough. Some people have already given up trying. They say, “I suppose if I really wanted to write, I’d have done it by now.”

But that’s just another excuse. That argument assumes we all fall naturally into what we want to do, when in fact it’s much more natural to find an excuse not to do it.

We all makes excuses. It’s a part of what we do. And the first step to making a commitment to finally writing a book is to recognize the excuses and to stop them getting in the way of your dreams.

Writing is an adventure

Inventing excuses is your mind’s way of protecting you, from keeping you from taking risks or using up too much precious energy. In evolutionary terms, that makes sense, but the excuses your mind invents can also keep you from enjoying some of life’s greatest adventures, of which writing a book is surely one.

Writing a book can be a hugely rewarding experience full of discovery (of your characters and yourself), creativity, and imagination. You can someday experience the thrill of seeing your name in print, and it can even – if you’re talented, hard-working, and can find a touch of luck – lead to fame and fortune.

In fact, many people are inspired to write by their well-known authors, those who have already made the journey. The life of a published author is an appealing one to many people. Many see it as days of daydreaming in a picturesque cottage, dressed in pajamas, intermittently hammering out perfect prose when the muse strikes.

In other words, many people like the idea of being an author, but they might not like the reality of that life.

Writing a novel takes a lot of time, and that’s time you could be using to pursue other things that are important in your life: looking after your family, taking care of your relationships, working to pay off the mortgage, striving to get that next promotion.

Some of those excuses might be legitimate reasons why you can’t write. Writing takes commitment as you need to sit down and write regularly, even when you don’t feel like it. You will suffer rejection and even harsh criticism from strangers and possibly even friends and family too.

Test your commitment to writing

How can you tell if you are someone who loves the idea of being an author with someone who really wants to be an author? How can you spot the difference between an excuse and a legitimate reason? There is one simple question that can help.

Whatever your dream, there is one question you should ask yourself before committing to it. For potential authors, it’s the one question that will find out if you really have what it takes to write a book. Answering this one question honestly will help you determine whether you genuinely want to be a writer or if you simply enjoy the idea of being a writer.

Instead of asking if you want to be a writer, to which it is easy to answer yes, a better question to ask is: Are you prepared to suffer?

Writing has many benefits, and as much as the idea of a tortured author might be clichéd, there are definite drawbacks too.

You will have to sacrifice precious time with your family and friends to write a book that maybe no one will ever want to read. And if anyone does read it, they might hate it and tell you so and tell you that you cannot write, that this goal you’ve been pursuing for months, maybe even years, has been pure fantasy.

You will have to commit to writing regularly, ideally every day, including your birthday, your children’s birthdays, Thanksgiving, Christmas Day, New Year’s and any other hungover, flu-filled, team-in-the-finals or just a regular can’t-be-bothered day. If you balk at the thought of having to write on any of those days, then maybe you don’t really want to be a writer.

As George Orwell said, “Writing a book is a horrible, exhausting struggle, like a long bout of some painful illness. One would never undertake such a thing if one were not driven on by some demon whom one can neither resist nor understand.”

If writing is what you really want to do and you’re prepared to go through that struggle, then now is the time to make that commitment to write, and if you really are prepared to suffer, it will be so much easier to keep that commitment.

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12 thoughts on “Stop Making Excuses And Write A Book

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  3. Tom Newton says:

    Don’t do it for money.
    Don’t do it for fame.
    Only do it if you are driven to do so.
    Only do it well.
    There is already enough noise out there.

  4. Penny says:

    I am ashamed to admit this, but it needs to be told. I have written 17 children’s books and have 3 rough drafts of novels that I wrote during NaNoWriMo over the past three years. I get up every day intending to work on at least one of them and wind up doing everything else. When I do sit down and tend to the stories, I get frustrated at trying to edit them. The children’s books need illustrations. I have considered self-publishing, but trying to find an illustrator has not worked out. I don’t have the finances to fund the projects. But, here I go again, making more excuses.

    1. Sounds like you are making a very brave effort. Procrastination happens to the best of us. I am in illustrator who would love to help you out…and no, I don’t charge a fortune either. http://www.missmadnessink.wix.com/tattoos

  5. Nina Hobson says:

    i write and publish my ebooks on Amazon (among other platforms.)

    i don’t view my dedication to writing as struggling, suffering or grinding as the article states, though. i take plenty of breaks and basically only write when and as much as i feel like it – sometimes, it’s only a paragraph in one day. however, i still consider myself structured and committed because i’m at least getting SOMETHING done.

    i have no plans to write the great american novel but i am pleased as a peach with the results of my flash fiction, short stores and novellas and have fun during the process of creating my characters and their adventures.

    the writer of this article has a good point, though. you’ve got to set your mind to do it and then actually put pen to paper or fingertips to keyboard and write something.

    good luck all.

  6. DannyCoo a German writer says:

    You know what Jim,
    You’re absolutely right.
    My problem is, that I think I will be a failure, so I excuse myself, nope, to be honest, I feel pity for myself and that’s wrong.
    I will change that, and write again, every day.
    I am a writer, but I started to be a coward. –
    Because it was convenient.
    I WILL CHANGE THAT.
    THANK YOU JIM.
    Danny

  7. E. Mattice says:

    Tortured? Missed special days including holidays? Not reality, a disciplined writer can bang out their story at any time, skipping days when needed. The story will come from inside the writers mind, and they control when and how it happens. The tortured ‘artiste’ is a worn out myth.

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