There’s no one right way to write– just like there’s no one proven parenting method. While your options are wide open, being great at either task is difficult work. Now imagine the negotiations, complications, and compromises you’ll have to figure out if you combine writing with parenting!
No two writing parents are alike– and every successful writer who’s also a parent has probably discovered different solutions and strategies to balance those priorities.
For instance, I was poking around online and read some advice from a mother who said, “If you’re tired, don’t write. Just sleep. You won’t write anything good with a foggy mind.” Conversely, I was talking with poet Todd Boss last month at the Printers Row LitFest in Chicago, and he told me about how he’d force himself to get up at 2 or 3am every morning to work on his first book, write for as long as he could, then crash again until the kids woke. I can’t imagine a MORE tired time to write than smack-dab in the middle of a rare stretch of available sleep.
But whatever works!
Here are 3 good articles that offer possible time-management solutions for parents/writers:
1. Parenting Tips for Writers– by Janet Fitch
2. Writer and Parent? Tips for Finding Your New Balance– by John Scalzi
3. Balancing Parenthood and Your Art Career– by Lori McNee
So, what works for you? How’ve you balanced writing with parenting? Please feel free to comment in the section below.
[Photo of dad feeding baby from Shutterstock.]